Problem Page!!!!

[BBooper]

in a different thread (dreams) we started discussing a few problems we had and others are trying to help. ones that i am trying to help is kayla!


Originally posted by Kayla
Thanks.I dont thank its a fase because he never liked me.He is 24.He will never grow up.He still acts like a kid.He has 3 of them so he fits in good with them.He told me he wish I was died so many times it old.Onces he thoe a knife at my head but miss.To my mom and dad he is an angel but when there not around he sure dose not act like one.I am real close to my yonger sister.She and I get a long pretty good.My older sister is alway trying to change who I am make me more the way she thanks I should be but I never lison to her.My mom and my little sister are the ones I feel the closet to.My dad and me dont get along becouse he never likes what disions I make in my life.I love my family but I feel they dont exsept me the why I am.I cant be who they want me to be.I have to try to act and dress the why they wanted me to so many times it just never helps.That why after collage I want to move away to find out who I am.Sound kind of funny but I try to please them so many time it hard to know who I am.


it's about her brother and i think it would be a good idea if we posted our worries here and others can help :)

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[BBooper]

i'm sorry about the way you feel about your brother. if i was in your shoes i would ignore him completely and stick with your mum and your sis. tell him how you feel and if i were you i'd tell him how imiture he was being!

Hope i helpped!

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[sammiie]

Its ur life at the end of the day when i was younger i had alot of the same problems with my dad eventually i got a wonderful boyfriend and we moved out i think my dad now accepts that he can`t control me and i have my own life but lookin back i wasn`t perfect either hope it helps it some way

[BBooper]

:( it's so sad! :(

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[Bikerbettyboop]

It's sad that you and your brother don't get along.. but I don't get along well with my brother either... maybe it's a "brother" thing.. ???

[BBooper]

i agree! i don't get on with my brother either! :(

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[Bikerbettyboop]

Yeah, it's got to be a "brother thing" huh?.... well maybe it's just "some brothers" who are the problem children....

[BBooper]

yer! or maybe it'sjust teen age and younger 'men' that are the problem children! lol!

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[Bikerbettyboop]

Yep, blame it on the men... ha ha!! Not really it's probably just sibling rivalry.

[10eke]

I have some kind of problem... One that keeps me awake at night... The problem goes 'tip tap tip tap' right above my head in the attick. The problem I'm suffering is MICE! I hate mice! Yesterday it looked like it was in our room! I heared it chewing!!! (Or I thought so...)My boyfriend has a wooden floor, so you hear every sound. And the sound seemed to appear from under the bed. But when we looked, the was nothing! I didn't sleep well last night... I was affraid little teeth would nibble on my toe!

[BBooper]

don't worry about your mice!! lol, it's sounds like you have some sort of disease! :P all you have to remember is that your 10x bigger than them!!

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[bupadup]

oh !! that ****s!! i hate mice!! theyre gross!!

2:Kayla

dont try to be someone you'er not just to please them they have to accept you for who you really are!! i hope that in the future your relationship with your bro will get better but until then just try not to stay alone with him!! Good luck

[BBooper]

hey bupadup, your good at the advice thing! :D keep it up! ;)

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[bupadup]

thanx!!:D

[BBooper]

NP'S! :D are you enjoying it here???

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[bupadup]

yes i like it here... i like that eveyone likes to help everyone!! its nice here and everyone's so friendly!!:D

[BBooper]

:D i totally agree!!

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[bupadup]

yeah you dont have to try to fit in here.....everyone accepts each other!!:D

[BBooper]

i know what you mean!!! i love coming on here, i feel so relaxed and happy! :D

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[bupadup]

me to i love talking to different people and getting to know them better!!

[BBooper]

Glad you like it here! ;) talk soon!

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[bupadup]

ok!!

[Bikerbettyboop]

BBooper and Bupadup we are so glad to have you here too!!! It's a safe place to visit and talk to so many nice people!!

[BBooper]

i like that it's so safe!! it's good because it means my mum isn't monatoring my every post because she trusts you all on this site :D

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[Bikerbettyboop]

It sounds like your mom is a very smart woman and I don't blame her for monitoring your activities because she wants you to be safe.

I just heard on the news about a predator who lured a young girl to his grandmother's house and she was only 13 and he was 25.... I hope he goes to jail for that... seems he made the girl believe he was her age... so you have to be very very careful when chatting with strangers.

So your mom is right to be careful and you are too. But we won't allow any shenanagans here... that's for sure.

[10eke]

Yesterday I told a friend who I hadden't seen for a year, that our friendship wasn't really friendship anymore. He moved and he got another life and I've changed too. And before I called him I was really convinced, and now I feel terrible about it!

And oh, yeah, the mother of our queen, who was queen before her, has died...

[JennyBoop]

Originally posted by Bikerbettyboop
It sounds like your mom is a very smart woman and I don't blame her for monitoring your activities because she wants you to be safe.

I just heard on the news about a predator who lured a young girl to his grandmother's house and she was only 13 and he was 25.... I hope he goes to jail for that... seems he made the girl believe he was her age... so you have to be very very careful when chatting with strangers.

So your mom is right to be careful and you are too. But we won't allow any shenanagans here... that's for sure. One of my best friends who is 37 years old she is single and she goes onto those chat rooms or groups to meet men. I told that is very dangerous but she won't listen. She say's she chats with these men for A few weeks then she gives out her cell phone number and home phone number if they seem like they are nice guys. I'm scared for her but there is not much I can do really she is A grown woman and no matter what I tell her she won't listen to me. I really wish they would close up these chat rooms because they are nothing but trouble. There are alot of strange people on there not to mention alot of perverts.:mad:

[Bikerbettyboop]

10eke... I'm sorry to hear about your Queen's mother passing on.

Jenny I do hope your friend is careful when she decides to give out her personal information. I do believe that the majority of people are good but it only takes one bad person to become problem. You are wise to advise her to avoid personal problems with people she has only met in chat rooms or via instant messenger.

[10eke]

I'm walking around like a zombie at the moment. The bags under my eyes are the size of teabags! My boyfriend woke me up like 6 times tonight. He kept going out of bed and back in bed because he had such a pain in his stomach. I'm glad we can go to the hospital next week, so we might know what it is. It's gonna be a very long day for me today. It's gonna be buzzy today, and I still am so tired...
Sorry, just had to get that of my chest...

[JennyBoop]

Oh 10eke, I hope your boyfriend get's the help he need's when he goes to the doctor next week.

[Bikerbettyboop]

Oh 10eke, I am so sorry to hear that you are tired due to your boyfriends' not being able to sleep. It sounds like he needs to see a doctor soon... maybe sooner than next week. Is there a reason he can't be seen sooner?

[10eke]

No, we've been waiting for 2 months already! I think that's the average wait... Unless he was an emergency (that's not spelled right, is it?) but the doctor said he wasn't. So we had to wait!

[10eke]

Oh, and I went to bed really early, and I haven't slept this good in ages, so I feel all fresh and new again!

[JennyBoop]

I'm glad you got some sleep 10eke. :D

[10eke]

me too!

[LilBettyBoop]

:( he is out of orda!!!

[Bikerbettyboop]

10eke I'm glad you got some rest and yes you spelled emergency right. Hopefully he can be seen by the doctor soon.

Hi Lilbettyboop... welcome to the forum!!

[JennyBoop]

Welcome to the group lilbettyboop.:D

[Bikerbettyboop]

I hope Lilbettyboop comes back and visits us soon.

[10eke]

remember my boyfriend having a lot of pain? He still has. And I have to hear everything about it every day. And now I have something, and he acts like he's not interested. 'I'm having my own problems too, you know' So does this mean I can NOT complain, while he can?????

[BBooper]

i think he is being a little unfair! tell him either both of you or none of you complain... that way it's fairer :P

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[JennyBoop]

Yea your boyfriend's not being very fair, he need's to hear about your problems too.

[10eke]

He thinks his pain is way worse... I didn't tell him anthing about it, because I didn't want to argue again... I just wanted to get it off my chest...

[daisy]

i don't under stand? why, hold back. you should be heard, just as much, as him!!

[Bikerbettyboop]

hmmm 10eke.... sounds like your boyfriend is not being very understanding and a little one sided in the complaint department. Afterall if you're going to be sympathetic to his problems then he should be considerate and listen to yours too.

Relationships can't be one sided.... there has to be give and take from everyone involved.

[10eke]

We argue quite a lot these last few months. Also because he can't take that much because he's in pain all the time. So I just didn't feel like having another one. I know this will go away, we're going in and out of hospitals right now, and they'll find it, I'm sure!

[BBooper]

i hope the air is cleared for you 10 and i hope your bf get's better and i hope you get better too!!!

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[daisy]

HOPE YALL BOTH GET BETTER?

[Bikerbettyboop]

Gee 10eke I'm so sorry to hear that you are having such a difficult time right now. You're in my prayers and thoughts.

[10eke]

I'm better already... But my bf isn't yet :(

[10eke]

And oh, yeah, I saw my father again yesterday. We don't get along... He called me FAT. Just like that! He could have asked 'have you gained a little weight?' no he just said 'you've become fat!' Nice dad...

[Bikerbettyboop]

Hi 10eke... I'm glad to hear you are feeling better and sorry that your boyfriend isn't yet.

And I can't believe how thoughtless and heartless your dad was to say that you are FAT. From the pics I've seen of you, you are not fat nor are you overweight.... gee that kind of stuff drives me crazy! MEN! They can sure be thoughtless sometimes can't they? And especially your dad.... well I hope he regrets saying that to you and he apologizes for it.

If I had heard him say that, I would've called him on the carpet about it. Who appointed him Mr. Perfect anyway?

Well don't let it get to you.. just consider that he had a brief moment of insanity... that's the only explanation there is for being that outspoken and critical of you.

Everyone knows you are beautiful and not fat, so don't worry about it. Have a good day and don't let it bother you. He should be ashamed of himself for saying that to such a lovely person let alone his daughter.

[BBooper]

wow.... he sound's like a charming father!!! well, i'm glad you got better!!!! :) and biker is right! your not fat! your beautiful!! (there is photgraphic evidence on this site!!!)

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[Bikerbettyboop]

Thanks for agreeing with me!!

[BBooper]

;) :D well your right :)

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[Bikerbettyboop]

I just find it so hard to believe that someone could be that mean and cruel to her... especially her dad....

I was pretty fortunate that I had a great dad... he always said good things to me .. no matter how bad a hair day I was having... no matter what.. he was always encouraging... and I think that's how most dads are... aren't they?

[BBooper]

i know what you mean. you dad's there for support and to make you feel like a princess!!!

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[Bikerbettyboop]

That's what mom's and dad's and well family and friends in general are supposed to make us feel good about ourselves and instill good self esteem... beating someone up with words isn't going to do the job!

[BBooper]

nope!!!!

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[10eke]

Originally posted by BBooper
i know what you mean. you dad's there for support and to make you feel like a princess!!!

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I just wondered... after the age of 7 my dad was alway bugging me, and barely said nice things. I never heard it if I had done something good, but always when I did something bad... Is this normal?

[daisy]

10eke, i'msorry to hear about your father.i don't know my real father,( never seen him)! had a step father who was *********************************************. that should say enough! i wished i'd could help more on this matter?is this normal?? WHO KNOWS??? I DO HOPE THAT he opens his eyes & says *i'm sorry* :( :( :(

[10eke]

I'm glad I'm not the only one then!

[BBooper]

not really. your supposed to feel special and your dad is supposed to encourage you do do good things. reward you when you do well in something.

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[Bikerbettyboop]

Daisy I'm sorry to hear about you and your readl father.. that would make me sad...

I think there are probably a lot of mothers and fathers who have very poor parenting skills!! What a shame!

[daisy]

I think there are probably a lot of mothers and fathers who have very poor parenting skills!! What a shame! [/B][/QUOTE]

what a shame it is!!!


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[JennyBoop]

Yes it is such A shame. I see the way some of these parents raise their kids and it just scares me.

[Bikerbettyboop]

there should be a school for people to learn parenting skills!

[JennyBoop]

Hey that's A good idea girlie. There should be A school.

[Bikerbettyboop]

I've heard that there are some high schools that are teaching parenting classes but maybe it should start in elementary school.