this is the hospital thread: who needs fixin?

[monkie]

:)
ill do my best to help anyone out with anything.

[st nurse boop]

LOL what are you a nurse?

[Boopsie-Cola]

hehe interesting thread!! so what kinda help u offering der monkie?? :)

[BBooper]

yes.. very interesting!! :D Welcome aboard!

BBooper
xxx

[Neckless]

Well...I'm here at the hospital to get my...ummm...er-r-r...fingers fixed.
What can I use to lubricate them. I love to come on the BB forum and talk to some other Boopers...BUT!! My fingers get a little stiff.

Any advice or suggestions?? (hehehe)

[bettyboopfan]

Ummmm.....just a little confused with this one........

[Neckless]

this is the hospital thread: who needs fixin?

First...I believe you have to have a vivid imagination.

[monkie]

ok, for those who want to clown on this thread, dont even say anything. im just a friendly person who likes to help people out. if anyone has emotional problems or if anyone cant make a decision, im gonna try my best to help them out. that's it, if u dont have anything worth while to say, please dont say anything at all. and it's not only for me to help people out, u guys can help each other out, as a growing christian, im just trying to find ways to help people out, like i've been doing for years, if u dont want to accept that as the truth, please dont be smart about it. just trying to find a way in this world where people can get help if they need it or just so they can know that there is someone to listen to them when they need it. so if that is not u please dont even bother. but u r always welcome.

[mz_angel623]

Monkie I believe no one is clowning on your thread but they are just trying to figurie out what actually the threads about. Hey here in these forums we usually get off track. Please don't take it that way when I read the replies I believe the fellow booper were just trying to figure out what your thread was all about.

BREATH....STRETCH....SHAKE IT OFF.......


BY THE WAY WELCOME..........:):):):):):):):)

[monkie]

thanx mz_angel623

[mz_angel623]

:)

[BBooper]

Neckless. how about you have breaks whilst on the forum. Maybe inbetween posts stretch your fingers :D Hope that helps! :D

BBooper
xxx

[st nurse boop]

Are you a nurse monkie?

[Neckless]

Originally posted by BBooper
Neckless. how about you have breaks whilst on the forum. Maybe inbetween posts stretch your fingers :D Hope that helps! :D

BBooper
xxx

Umm. hmm. Good advice. BUT!! In all actuality, I have a little arthritis in my finger and it's the "click" of the mouse finger. Breaks DO indeed help...sometimes!!

Thanks!!!<a href='http://www.smileycentral.com/?partner=ZSzeb008_ZSXXXXXX43US' target='_blank'><img src='http://smileys.smileycentral.com/cat/36/36_1_40.gif' alt='Nurse' border=0></a>Er-r-r...did someone say injection??
(hehehe)

[Boop'n'Cheeks]

hey monkie how are you and the rest of my fellow boopers... yah no booper was trying to clown on this thread or anything just curious what it's about so don't trip...exactly what mz_angel623 said...that is very nice of you it was all just a big misunderstanding

[Neckless]

Curious Neckless
Umm. hmm...

[monkie]

no, im not a nurse, im a sixteen year old gurl who likes to help people out, but obviously no one seems to have any problems, thats a good thing though, rite? just forget that i even brought this about, i really regret it.

[st nurse boop]

Don't be like that it's a good idea!

[Neckless]

Originally posted by monkie
ok, for those who want to clown on this thread, dont even say anything. im just a friendly person who likes to help people out. if anyone has emotional problems or if anyone cant make a decision, im gonna try my best to help them out. that's it, if u dont have anything worth while to say, please dont say anything at all. and it's not only for me to help people out, u guys can help each other out, as a growing christian, im just trying to find ways to help people out, like i've been doing for years, if u dont want to accept that as the truth, please dont be smart about it. just trying to find a way in this world where people can get help if they need it or just so they can know that there is someone to listen to them when they need it. so if that is not u please dont even bother. but u r always welcome.


HERE'S A PROBLEM:

this young couple lives together unmarried and they are contemplating children.

do you think they should live together before getting married and having children?

[mz_angel623]

MY SOLUTION:

People these days have children before getting married or living together if one chooses to have kids before they do either one of these it's totally up to them. The word wedlock is so wrong to say to someone who has child before marriage. I personally am going through this situation but when I was younger I always wanted kids before marriage. Not trying to say I want to lock my man down for life just becuase I'm pregant. But then again I want before I have children I want to have a house and good stable job and good insurance for my children. And then maybe the marriage part not a big huge wedding that will leave me broke for like five years. Just my opinion fellow booper.........

[mz_angel623]

MONKIE:

Don't regret starting this thread you meant well you like to help people from what I gather and that is not wrong. :):):):):)

[st nurse boop]

I think they should live together for a little while Neckless, before having children or getting married to see if they are truely compatable.

Mind you sometimes things can change once the wedding rings are in place:rolleyes:

[Neckless]

Monkie...will you help??

[bettyboopfan]

Monkie, nobody here was clowning your thread.

Sometimes we just joke around and have fun. I believe that is what we were doing. We were not making fun of you.

Relaxe and enjoy your new friends, we enjoy you.

[BBooper]

Originally posted by Neckless
Umm. hmm. Good advice. BUT!! In all actuality, I have a little arthritis in my finger and it's the "click" of the mouse finger. Breaks DO indeed help...sometimes!!

Thanks!!!<a href='http://www.smileycentral.com/?partner=ZSzeb008_ZSXXXXXX43US' target='_blank'><img src='http://smileys.smileycentral.com/cat/36/36_1_40.gif' alt='Nurse' border=0></a>Er-r-r...did someone say injection??
(hehehe)

glad i could help! :D maybe you should trying clicking your mouse with your middle finger. it might be hard at first but you'll get used to it and it will give your other clicking finger a rest :D

BBooper
xxx

[BBooper]

Originally posted by Neckless
HERE'S A PROBLEM:

this young couple lives together unmarried and they are contemplating children.

do you think they should live together before getting married and having children?

my brother has been living with his gf for a year now and now they are engaged. i think it is ok for a couple to move in and even have children before marriage. I think it's totally up to the couple and if thats what they want to do with thier life why should any one stop them!? as long as they are in love and are happy and are willing to take on responsibility they aren't harming anyone!

BBooper
xxx

[Pudgy05]

Yeah! I agree! I play the sims like all the time and I always move people in before I get them married!:) Also has anyone ever had a friend stay for a while, one of my friends Kezia stayed with me for like a week last year and in the end we were really annoying each other!
Pudgy
xxx

[Neckless]

monkie...are you there? I want to hear your opinion in this matter. Thanks

[monkie]

well, since ima christian, imy beliefs say that having *** before marriage is a sin, let alone have children before marriage. one of my youth leaders at my church was just discussing that her friend is living with her bf and not married, she was totally against that. but if ur not a christian or anything like that u would do wut makes u happy, but as a growing christian i advise that they make sure that their indivisual lives are set then think about their lives together, plan out what they want to do , what they want to accomplish and then think about getting married after 45 years( something my dad would say) but honestly, everything does change after marriage, and getting divorced is also against christian beliefs so they should make sure everything is rite, christian or not. if it were me i wouldnt do it, but everyone is different.

[Neckless]

That's GR8 advice.

Listen:

I read an ad in a magazine about how the christian woman is accepting abuse...whether verbal, emotional or physical and it is all attributed to their faith and christian beliefs. One is...not believing in divorce. Another thing is that prayer heals and changes things. These woman STAY in the relationship because they believe that the man can and will change. But in the meantime...she is accepting of whatever he inflicts.

What are our views on these issues at hand?

I want elaborate on this after your answer. Think it's against forum policy...not sure!

[monkie]

the christian woman wont leave the man because of their beliefs. they arent really accepting it as if they had a choice, every woman says that the man can and will change because christians live to become disciples and as they become stronger disciples they can influence the men easier than before and thats howw they change, but turning their life to god.

[monkie]

sry if this is against the rules, i didnt know either.

[Pudgy05]

So what? Are we meant to try and sort out the problem? I fso then they should split up. Christianity (once again sorry if this is against the rules) may say you should stay together but surely God didn't want people to be unhappy! I don't know as I'm not Chrisatian but it sounds right to me!!

Pudgy
xxx

[Pudgy05]

Sorry if I offended you but I have a niggling that the man won't change!!

Pudgy
xxx

[Neckless]

monkie...do you know of anone who is involved in a situation like this? I thought that once you professed to christianity and being "saved" (as it is termed in America) you were automatically surrounded with surety and purity. Unlimited blessings poured in and all was well. Nothing evil (in other words) could get up close to you.

Then too...love is blinding.
A christian woman...not able to see or sense such evil?

[monkie]

when u get saved thats wen a lot of things try to get u away from god ,because the devil wants u to be with him not god, and i failed to mention that christians r only supposed to marry christians so they wont have problems like this. and yes i do know someone like this , but she wasnt a christian until after she was married and had his kids, my mom.

[Neckless]

oh wow! That had an unusual climax. I'm sure your mom is very happy and proud to be his christian and lawfully wedded wife.

thank you monkie for your helpful input. How old did you say you are? Are you a missionary??

[monkie]

actually my mom isnt happy, thats the problem my dad isnt a christian and she is and their minds really dont coincide with each other. but im going to be sixteen on janurary second

[monkie]

no im not a missionary, just a little advanced for my age i guess, ive always known a little more than my average age should knoe, but ill take that as a compliment, so thanks

[Neckless]

"" just a little advanced for my age ""

You sure are.


"" my mom isnt happy ""

So what advice do you give her? ...Or do you inflict your worthiness and intelligence on her in a supportive gesture?

[monkie]

well me and brothers always try to talk her out of the stupid things she does for him cuz he dont deserve it, but she is a growing christian herself so i try to let her handle her own problems the way she wants to handle them, but we try to talk to her as much as she will let us or until we get fustrated cuz she is very difficult sometimes. but.... worthiness? never that, i give all that to the lord.

[Neckless]

hmmm. you are a very supportive daughter.
Just be mindful and prayerful of her and dad.

All the rest...you've already said who you'd leave it to.

[mz_angel623]

I'm lost is this a religious thread????

[Neckless]

Originally posted by Neckless
this is the hospital thread

ANY problems you have...monkie...who is a growing christian...wants to help to solve them


We just got in to some topics that I thought she would be the best to confront with them. SHe supplied great answers.

We're finished with it. Ok??

Anything you have...problems, curiousities, doubts, fears...you might want to share with monkie??

[mz_angel623]

Oh just asking you know sometimes with touchy subjects in this forum can get you scolded..........Just thought I'd ask..........Very smart for only being almost 16 MONKIE.....:):)

[Neckless]

scolded...

Who knows any better than...guess who??

<a href='http://www.smileycentral.com/?partner=ZSzeb008_ZSXXXXXX43US' target='_blank'><img src='http://smileys.smileycentral.com/cat/10/10_9_206.gif' alt='Club Me' border=0></a>ME!!!

Aaahhhhh-Hahahahah!!

[mz_angel623]

lol your crazy Neckless........

[Neckless]

Watch your language young Booper!! (heheheh) I've got 3 inches of<a href='http://www.smileycentral.com/?partner=ZSzeb008_ZSXXXXXX43US' target='_blank'><img src='http://smileys.smileycentral.com/cat/36/36_2_54.gif' alt='Nurse' border=0></a> sterile needle...loaded with highly addicting...Boop Juice!! One hit...and you're hooked for life!!!

[st nurse boop]

LOL that looks like me Neckless :D

[Neckless]

Hehehe...I hear ya...er-r-r- I mean I see ya!!

Hahahah! That's a great look! $$$$$

[Neckless]

or anyone who can offer solid guidance...

How do you tell someone that they have "bad breath"...without hurting their feelings. Now you know how sensitive people are...right?<a href='http://www.smileycentral.com/?partner=ZSzeb008_ZSXXXXXX43US' target='_blank'><img src='http://smileys.smileycentral.com/cat/10/10_2_9.gif' alt='Bad Breath' border=0></a>

Before you advise me...imagine the person is a very good friend of your fathers.

Be mindful...a lot of people<a href='http://www.smileycentral.com/?partner=ZSzeb008_ZSXXXXXX43US' target='_blank'><img src='http://smileys.smileycentral.com/cat/10/10_15_4.gif' alt='Sandwich Breath' border=0></a>eat heavy onions and garlic and spicy foods. There are people who just don't know that their breath is fowl. There are people who have acid reflux and it comes from a sour stomach.

[Neckless]

.

[BBooper]

why don't you offer them some mints, or some chewing gum and then suggest they buy some for themselves for when they arre out and about? thats my suggestion, hope it helped!

BBooper
xxx

[Neckless]

Hmmm.<a href='http://www.smileycentral.com/?partner=ZSzeb008_ZSXXXXXX43US' target='_blank'><img src='http://smileys.smileycentral.com/cat/4/4_13_3.gif' alt='Oh Jeez' border=0></a>Naaaaahhh!! S'gotta be something else that can be said.

[ooohlala]

mmmmmmmmm......maybe suggets that they shudn't eat onions or spicey food or wahever u said( this will only work if they eat that kinda thing)

[Neckless]

Oh well. I have such a way with people and words...I'll have an answer for the person who asked me...by the weeks end.

Thanksssss muchas!!

[Neckless]

Ummm. Don't really want to get into telling the person what they should/shouldn't eat or chew.

[Boop'n'Cheeks]

wow that is a tough one i wouldn't know what to say...i'd just stay as far possible from the person's breath that way i would'nt hurt there feelings...you know talk from a different angle!

[flirting boop's]

how to fix this sadness in the dawn of 2005..........
everytime congrats a happy new year, the sadness of my people in Meulaboh just chas after it. Wish it wont haunted me during this 2005

[flirting boop's]

Quote from Neckless :

scolded...

Who knows any better than...guess who??

ME!!!

Aaahhhhh-Hahahahah!!

-----> U R so Funny Neckless ! :)

[Bikerbettyboop]

Hi Flirting Boops... I am sorry for the tragedy and am sending prayers and hugs to you. I know you are sad and have a heavy heart. I hope that 2005 goes better for you.

[Neckless]

Quote from Neckless :

scolded...

Who knows any better than...guess who??

ME!!!

Aaahhhhh-Hahahahah!!

-----> U R so Funny Neckless ! :)


Oh Hey!! I am soooooooo happy that you responded and you're ok!!
I'll talk to you and ask questions when I see you on again. WELCOME BACK!!!

I was soooooooooooooooooo worried about you!

[monkie]

hey neckless. everyone. sorry i havent been on for a while. kinda busy lately. it was my birthday on sunday. im sixteen. but the answer that i have for u i hope it isnt too late. but id go up to them and asked wut they ate, and u'll find out wut is making their breath bad and then if u are really humble eat wut they ate and then(make sure u have some first!) take out some gum and say sumthin like oh man that 'wutever' can really kill your breath but in ur own way and then after u put ur gum or mint of some kind(a good one) offer to ur dads friend. hopefully that'll work. hope it isnt too late.glad u are enjoying the thread. thought it was a bad idea.umm flirting boop i think it is?hope so. wutever it is that is hurting u ar that has hurt u i'd really like to hear about it and if u want i'd like to help. see ya :D

[Neckless]

Hmmm. Happy belated birthday.
This young lady lives with her father...and whenever the fathers' friend comes to call for him...she holds a conversation with the man...and so...sitting down having what he is having to eat...is out of the question. It's NOT that kind of relationship...

You understand what I'm saying??

I'm not sure what to tell her yet.

[bettyboopfan]

Oh I wish I had an answer for you Neckless!
I too would like to know what to say.
My father-in-laws breath smells completely awful all the time!
He is one of those people that likes to be right in your face when he talks to you too.
My daughter who is 4 and very honest embarrassed me the other day. My father-in-law told her to come give him a kiss good bye and she says ok and goes over and he is leaning in to kiss her and tells her good bye. She says, "grampa, your kisses smell bad". I was shocked!! I had no idea what to say!! Later I told her it was not nice to tell someone that their kisses smell.
LOL!! Kids are so honest!

[monkie]

ok well, umm............................maybe she can just say sumthin like "you know during the day breath gets kinda bad and i always have to slip a peice a gum before sumone notices" i dont know. like she can say it in a super freindly manner but not fake. u know. but wut kind of relationship do they have? maybe that'll help.

[flirting boop's]

Thank you Bikerbettyboop ! I appreciate it much !
Your concern will be worth for us
N thank god my family is all okay.

[flirting boop's]

Thk god me n family r okay
but i couldnt imagine if i lost one of my family
its so terrrrrriblllleeee,horrriblee, n terrifying,....
dunno what words to expres my feeling about it!
We need about 2-3 years to build up the region which had disaster
lots of pain there.....
but once again thk U for supporting, its worth a lot.
I will tell u again about the progress in my country.
It's a world disaster

[Neckless]

"but wut kind of relationship do they have?"

Well...Her father and the man are friends. THen man is someone who simply may ask..."where's your dad"?...or "Hey...how are ya today? Is your dad home?"

It's not an "up close and personal" type relationship.

[Biker Babe]

Is anybody on this fourm an Registered nurse or a doctor? I have a question I would like to ask them. It is important, thanks.

[BBooper]

i think st nurse is a nurse, or is training to be one!

BBooper
xxx

[Neckless]

go for it!!
We're all nurses and doctors and even lawyers here on the forum.

hehehe. Give it a shot!!

[Biker Babe]

I don't know about you Neckless! He He! Here goes.
For the past week or so my left had has been going numb at the last two fingers and half of my palm. Today also part of my rist. This is all on the left side of my left hand. It comes and goes. Can somebody help me figure this out?

[monkie]

biker babe that might be carpotunel, or however u spell it. might wanna go to the doctor for that.

[Biker Babe]

Okay, thanks for letting me know monkie. I have no idea how I got that! I won't beable to go to the doctor for awhile because I have no insurance.

[flirting boop's]

happy belated birthday monkie :cool:

[BBooper]

I don't know about you Neckless! He He! Here goes.
For the past week or so my left had has been going numb at the last two fingers and half of my palm. Today also part of my rist. This is all on the left side of my left hand. It comes and goes. Can somebody help me figure this out?

are you left or right handed? if you are left handed and use it regulary to write or type it might be because it isn't been rested. just a theory! hope it get's better soon!

BBooper
xxx

[Biker Babe]

are you left or right handed? if you are left handed and use it regulary to write or type it might be because it isn't been rested. just a theory! hope it get's better soon!

BBooper
xxx
I am right handed, so I have no idea how it got this way! Thanks, BBooper, I hope it gets better soon too! :P :D

[BBooper]

:o that is strange then!! monkie is right, you should see your doctor ;)

BBooper
xxx

[Biker Babe]

I don't have a doctor here. I also don't have insurance so it will have to wait.

[BBooper]

have got you any friends who are doctor's or know first aid? maybe they could help :D some local pharmcy's might help you out too!

BBooper
xxx

[st nurse boop]

It does sound similar to carpal tunnel or a pinched nerve in your elbow, you should definitely get it checked out.

Do you ride a bicycle?

[Biker Babe]

It does sound similar to carpal tunnel or a pinched nerve in your elbow, you should definitely get it checked out.

Do you ride a bicycle?
I got a bicycle for christmas but haven't had time to ride it yet. Haven't ridden a bike in years! LOL!

[st nurse boop]

Bicycles can be a cause of carpal tunnel or pinched nerve thats the only reason I asked.

Please do go and get your symptoms checked out tho !

[Biker Babe]

Thanks everybody for caring! I need the support right now!

[bettyboopfan]

I hope you get a chance to get that checked out soon Biker Babe.
I don't know about where you live but here (Oklahoma) you can go to the ER and get checked out if you don't have any insurance.

I hope your hand gets better 100%!
Keep us posted!

[monkie]

yeah here in california u can go to an er if u dont have insurance too. everywhere should have it, if they dont they should for reasons like this cuz this isnt something that some tylenol can handle, its dangerous. my mom has it

[Neckless]

"Bicycles can be a cause of carpal tunnel or pinched nerve."

This is true.

[Boop'n'Cheeks]

Oh i am so sorry about hearing that biker babe. Yes i really think you need to get it checked out if it continuously hurts you. I really hope it gets better soon... yah lets help biker babe look into getting someone to help her with this prob... Take it easy biker babe!

[Bikerbettyboop]

HI Bikerbabe... I sure hope your hand gets better soon!

[Biker Babe]

Thanks ya'll! LOL! I will chat at ya as soon as get back!

[Bikerbettyboop]

Thanks ya'll! LOL! I will chat at ya as soon as get back!

Ok dokie... take care!!

[bettyboopfan]

You will be in our thoughts and prayers Biker Babe!!

[Boop'n'Cheeks]

yessir-eI hope and pray that you are much better Biker Babe! Let me know I thought i just saw you on here but i am not to sure....HELLO where is all my fellow Boopers?????

[Neckless]

Hmmmmm. Just thinking. THe "mouse" that we click can get that "click finger" out of sorts too!!
My finger hurts. I'm on the "pute" so much.

Hope you feel better soon BIker!!

[bettybooper25]

hello all...can ib ve fixed?lol

[Neckless]

hehehe...there's a small possibility BB25.

WOW!! You're about to hit 1000 posts!!

You've been posting your Betty Booper off!!...heh??

Congrats!

[bettybooper25]

thanks neckless...i am tryin.../.lol+

[bettybooper25]

it will take me forever to catch up to u....u quick talkin for a while...and i wikll catch up...lol...j/k

[Neckless]

Hehehe. Sorry...I'm hooked!

Keep posting! You have done GREAT!!

[monkie]

is there anyone else who has a situation or problem that they need some help with, or advice? i know our lives cant be that easy.

[monkie]

i was wondering if anyone can help me out with something.

as a growing christian, i have a little problem with my anger towards my dad. i cant even start to explain all the crap he puts me and my family through. i mean its not as bad as hitting or anything but its more emotional and frustrating. every single day he always tries to look around at a perfectly claen and peaceful house and finds something that is perfectly fine into something that kills everyones spirit. he isnt christian so it makes it hard to keep the peace with understanding. but anyway, thats only the tiny part. he was never really there for me or my three brothers. he always treats my mom like she is nobody, he always feels sorry for other people's kids, and treats his own like booboo. every time he comes home from work, everyone goes upstairs until he goes to bed.he comes home at two thirty and goes to bed aroundeight. he lies. on sunday he said i got an attitude and didnt say good morning to him ( which is all a lie) and so he said i couldnt go to dance practice after church. i got so mad. he lied! how can a dad do that? i dont know, i know this is a lot, but i need new people for advice. what can i do to keep my mind off all of the things he does, cuz as i think about it, i get angry and my thoughts arent where they should be. how can i keep a peaceful mind?

please help.

[st nurse boop]

I've never been religious but I grew up with a mom that verbally, physically and mentally abused me. I used to wish her dead as I was growing up (I'm 36 now), anyway as time has gone on I've learned to forgive her I have found that she had a ****ty upbringing herself!

Anyway we aren't the bestest of friends now but if I have a problem she is the first person I go and speak to about it, maybe its not your dads fault it might have something to do with his upbringing :confused:

Just a thought, I don't want anyone jumping down my throat over this ok!

[Boop'n'Cheeks]

Yah good advice St Nurse Boop. Sorry to hear about that monkie. I know that your dad has no right to be acting like that especially towards his children and wife. A lot of people can relate to this, maybe you can try to talk on good terms of course and explain to him what bothers you. Usually at first he'll probably deny and say your crazy but he really needs to see that he has a problem and maybe suggest counceling. My dad is sort a the same way and it bothers me too sometimes but you need to look on the bright side and try to get your dad to open up and let you know more about the way he was raised. It is going to bother you regardless because it is your dad but you need to stay strong. You and your family do not deserve to be treated that way. Maybe he is alittle hurt inside to! My dad and boyfriend grew up a horrible life. My daughters dad treats me so mean has been physically, mentally and emotionally abusive toward me. It is still not an excuse for the way he treated me but he grew up in gangs went through abuse himself, never even had his dad nor met him,he also dealt with drugs was practically raised by his granpa who is a control freak himself. So keep your mind straight and try to ignore it once in a while because it can really get to you at time to time. So again hang in there "K"?

[bettyboopfan]

I do hope all works out well with you and your father.
Just stay strong and keep your faith and everything will turn out.
Follow the advice of st nurse and Boop'n'Cheeks, they gave some excellent tips!

[Boop'n'Cheeks]

Very much so bettyboopfan...hang on in there Monkie.

[Neckless]

"every time he comes home from work, everyone goes upstairs until he goes to bed.he comes home at two thirty and goes to bed aroundeight. he lies."

are you sure there are no drugs or alcohol involved in his life?

[monkie]

ok i didnt give you all the details did i? well yeah he is an alcoholic and he is addicted to vicadin. every time me and my brothers try to talk to him whether in writing or in person he doesnt car. he didnt really have a dad, his dad used to beat him and none of his siblings, he grew up on the streets of brooklyn. he will never change his ways, but my faith is tellin me that the time will come that he will wake up and see what he is doing to his family. but i just cant control my anger sometimes. thanks for being there and for the good advice.

[Biker Babe]

It will get better in time monkie. I have been there too, I know how you feel. Sometimes the best thing is not to talk to them then you don't have to deal with it. At least he doesn't hurt you by hitting you, but the words hurt too. My prayers go with you to help you. If you need anything just ask.

[Bikerbettyboop]

Wow Monkie.. it sounds like you have some real sensitive issues here to deal with. My thoughts and prayers go out to you and your family. And remember verbal abuse is just as bad for you emotionally as physical abuse is... are there any other family members who can help (outside your immediate family) like grandparents or aunts and uncles??

[monkie]

no no other family that can help me, there's my 18 year old brother and my church family. but everyone else in the family isnt there for me like that. honestly i think that is super pathetic, but oh well, just used to it i guess.

[bettybooper25]

well..i guess u couldnt help me...i have to still go see a quack tomorrow...so he can tell me i am cliniclly insane....please help...lol...i hate doctors...some how they always come up with the same reason as to why i am the way i am....TOO FAT...It never fails to come up...they will say that is why i am so depressed and that forced me to become bipolar....lol...lol...i guess i have to go and hear it all again/...lol,...wish me luck....thanks for tryin to fix me though....hee hee hee....the physco has left the thread

[st nurse boop]

LOL your not a psycho its good that you can talk about your illness, i've met many people with Bi polar affective disorder, I worked for 3 years in Mental Health.

Good luck at the quacks today hun ;)

[bettybooper25]

lol..i hate these doctors people...all he wanted to ask about was my *** life....ewww...what the h**L? so not right........yuck....and then after aski all these way too personal questions, he says....you look anxious....well geez...why not? i hate talkin about my personal life.

[Bikerbettyboop]

I'm not a fan of hospitals either!! I have just had a family emergency. Yesterday my sister was kicked in the chest by one of her horses. She was alone when it happened and it knocked her out cold! The horse took off running down the road!

My mom called me in a panic when she saw the horse running around and so I jumped in my truck and flew to my sister's house and found her on the ground barely coherent.

I got her up and around and sat her down to catch her breath, while I ran after her stupid horse!

I told my sis we needed to get her some emergency care but she kept insisting she was ok.. but I knew she wasn't.

Well once the initial shock wore off and the pain set in and she couldn't breathe very well on her own, I ran her into town (about 10 miles) to the emergency room and after some ex-rays, they said she was pretty bruised and gave her some vicodin for the pain.

Very early this morning I talked to her and she was crying hysterically and said she had hot shooting pains in her side and chest... so I ran her to the emergency room and they discovered through ex-rays that she has fractured ribs and damage to her lungs. The doctor said it was worse than it was yesterday! They said it looked like she'd been in a car accident and that her body had sustained serious trauma! In fact, they put her in triage!

So even though she's getting pain meds, she's still pretty uncomfortable.

Give me a motorcycle anyday over a horse! This is the 3rd serious accident my sis has had with her horses. She's been a horse owner for over 40 years but they've nearly killed her 3 times now!

[bettybooper25]

wow....i am glad she is ok....though still in pain...that could have done real damage

[st nurse boop]

Sounds like the ER was pretty negligent in the first place how did they miss the broken ribs and punctured lung?

They would be sued for that in this country! :confused:

Pretty incompetent if you ask me.

[st nurse boop]

Hope your sis gets well soon btw :D

[Bikerbettyboop]

Yep, she's extremely fortunate that it wasn't worse. She has ended up in the hospital in the past from her horse accidents... so I am glad it wasn't any worse than it is.

[Boop'n'Cheeks]

My prayers go out to all of you and your families. I know that we all suffer from major tragedies in our lives but we need to find peace with the big guy in the sky and keep moving forward and being strong. HAng in there every boopers.

[BBooper]

very sorry to hear about your sister! i hope she gets well soon, i'm sure she will with a good sis like you!

BBooper
xxx

[monkie]

wow that was serious story, how scary. i know she is going to be ok cuz god was and is with her. i will make sure that she is in my prayers. stay strong for her everytime.she is a very durable woman and strong. tell her to never give up if its something she really really desires. unless she ends up in a coma or something, but it looks like she knows what she is doing since she started forty years ago. she will get better soon, i know it.

[Neckless]

Well once the initial shock wore off and the pain set in and she couldn't breathe very well on her own, I ran her into town (about 10 miles) to the emergency room and after some ex-rays, they said she was pretty bruised and gave her some vicodin for the pain.

Very early this morning I talked to her and she was crying hysterically and said she had hot shooting pains in her side and chest... so I ran her to the emergency room and they discovered through ex-rays that she has fractured ribs and damage to her lungs. The doctor said it was worse than it was yesterday! They said it looked like she'd been in a car accident and that her body had sustained serious trauma! In fact, they put her in triage!


...and the doctor's missed that??

[Boop'n'Cheeks]

Yah some of these docs I don't possibly know how they becameone.. I know that everyone makes mistakes but come on now how would they miss that?? Well Neckless i hope that your sis is doing better and all goes well. Prayers sent to you, her and your family. Take it easy and take care. Talk to you later...

[bettybooper25]

that is just horrible...i cant beleive that doc has their licence still

[Bikerbettyboop]

I don't think the doctors missed anything... the ex rays didn't show anything that serious and the bruising and soreness just got worse over night.

She's much better now and stopped taking the Vicodin on her own. It's been a week since the accident. She'll be ok.. it's just going to take some time for her old bones to heal.

[monkie]

hey , how's everyone doing? i guess no else has any problems to where i might be able to help, well hopefully we will talk again
i've been kinda busy. but im back.

[LilMizNaughty25]

I though u were a nusre to <a href='http://www.smileycentral.com/?partner=ZSzeb008_ZSXXXXXX50US' target='_blank'><img src='http://smileys.smileycentral.com/cat/36/36_1_40.gif' alt='Nurse' border=0></a> But i get wat u mean now and i ave a problem i need help and it is this:

I have seen my Dad for since i was 2 so that is 13 year and i am 15 and now he wants to get in contact with me and i am scary because if he wants to meet me i wouldn't know wat to do please help me to diside wat to do
From Lil' Miz Naughty

[BoopThis79]

SOUNDS LIKE YOU ARE IN A TOUGH STOP WITH YOUR SITUATION, IF I WERE YOU I WOULD MAYBE GIVE HIM A CHANCE, I DONT KNOW THE CIRCUMSTANCES TO WHY YOU HAVENT SEEN HIM IN SO LONG BUT I GUESS ITS UP TO YOU, I DONT KNOW WHAT I WOULD DO WITHOUT MY DADDY, HE'S THE COOLEST GUY I KNOW, AND EVERY GIRL DESERVES TO HAVE A DAD, BUT IF YOU SEE HIM IT WOULD BE LIKE STARTING A NEW RELATIONSHIP TAKE IT SLOW AND SEE HOW IT GOES, IF I WERE YOU I'D GIVE IT A SHOT, WOULD YOU WANNA GO THRU LIFE WONDERING IF ANYTHING COULD OF BEEN,,,SO I GUESS IT DONT HURT TO TRY, GOOD LUCK, I WISH YOU ALL THE BEST,,,,,FOR ANY DECISION YOU MAKE...HAVE YOU TALKED TO ANYOTHER FAMILY MEMBERS ABOUT IT, WHAT DO THEY THINK, ARE YOU AN ONLY CHILD,,,,, :o

[monkie]

i cant say i can relate to ur situation but i can say that if u decide to meet him dont blame him for anything. i mean i dont know y he hasnt been in ur life and if u want to share that with me thats ur choice but it would be easier for me to help u out. anyway, sum peeps do this and they sart blaming them or giving them the third degree on y they did this or why they didnt do that. but give him the third degree with questions like how has ur life been or wut have u accomplished or maybe talk bout himself , get to know him like u would have known him if he was in ur life. just be there as a daughter , not another person in his face blaming him for the mistakes that he prolly regrets. and if ur still not sure then ask god to give u courage or strength or even faith that u everthing will be ok. i dont know if ur christian or not but i am. i will pray for u and ur pops that bofe yaw will rejoice wit each other. but thats my advice for now. if u need more, ill always be here.

from a friend that loves u and who will keep u in her prayers.